Thursday

Marriage & Love Making




Love Making Requires Making Observations


First and foremost pay attention to what pleases your mate. I realize this takes your attention away from you desires, but learning more about your love mate and what tingles their fancy will be reversed back to you many times over. Pleasure seekers in marriage have a tendency to seek their own objectives and in the process over look the needs and desires of their love partner.

Love Preparation is Simple

And often times then not it’s the simple things that make the big difference. And what you think doesn’t matter. You must pay attention to what pleases and arouses your companion and then duplicate that concept with minor modifications to give hopefully variety and spontaneity to the togetherness situation. Sure I can tell you what works for me but I’m not going to do that because what goes on between my love and me is private and that’s the way it will always remain. When you truly love someone you don’t do and tell. To me that is the ultimate betrayal between two people who profess to love each other.

Its Not All About the Conclusion

And sometimes I think we view the final result as the most import aspect of the love making get together. Nothing could be further from the truth. Doing the little intimacy things even though sex isn’t the current objective is like giving out bits of wonderful tasting chocolate chip cookies and enjoying the moment and savoring the taste till the right movement becomes available and two loving hearts find time to say in wonderfully enjoyable ways I love You.

The Little Touches, Touch Us All

I truly believe that the little gestures of closeness create more anticipation then all the fluff and flowers that lead to the bed. I guess my thinking is that not drawing the whole picture leaves much to the imagination and doesn’t that cause more sparks and give the mind a nice rush of wellness we sorely need in our busy days of dealing with all the needs of surviving. That’s how I feel and I’m sticking to it. And believe me I greatly enjoy our wellness together.


Don L. Terrill

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