Never stop being Friends

We Forget Were Friends

Sometimes in the hustle and bushel of life we forget to remember who we are and what we mean to each other. Yes were in love but also were friends and that’s a very special thing to friends and should never be over shadowed by the complications of life. I don’t think that we as humans have what would be called real true friendships. My wife has one and she talked to her for more then two hours last night. I’m not sure what they were talking about but it must have been good for both of them because they were laughing and giggling about things the were saying to each other.

I Have Two True Friends

I have two such friends and both are family members and one is my oldest son. We share the first name so I couldn’t possible forget him. I have always loved my two sons but between the two Don is more user friendly and I find myself talking to him about everything and never seem to be concerned about what he’s thinking nor do I worry about what he says to me. He will with great ease of presentation make his point of views about things and we do have some differences of opinion, but I never hear words from him that interfere with the friendship we have. Friends are always honest and straight forward but their views are not vent towards each other and that's the special connections friends share and that’s why they continue to be friends.

My Other Best Friend is the Love of My Life

My second friend is my best friend and she just happens to be my wife. I not sure that many people can make this kind of statement and mean it. Cutie my special name for her is a straight from the shoulder person, when she’s talking to someone and if you want her real opinion she will share it with you and it wont always be easy to digest. But she doesn’t say it to hurt you, she just says what she believes to be the truth and her insight is good a thing to bet on, because batting average is almost 909. Sometimes like a friend she knows I’m not looking for the truth and just talking to hear myself talk. When this condition exists she holds her thoughts to herself and just listens and helps promote my good thoughts if any happen to pass her way.

I love my friends and I’m glad I have them. That’s how I feel and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill
The Marriage Guru

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