Didnt Remember? Take One Step Towards the Basement

To Forget is Almost Unforgivable

My memory is not my best quality so I need constant back up to remember the special events of our life together. Yes I know this is more important to the ladies then it is to the men but smart men learn the dates that are special to their mate and they do there best to validate this time with special offerings which their love partner either reads, eats, smells or wears somewhere on her body. To do otherwise is to exile yourself to the dark corner of the basement and its cold and lonely there. And making corrections after the fact seldom equal the proper presentation.

Look Beyond His Failing To Remember

Now ladies don’t forget your special man, yes he has much to learn about being a loving person but he could be worse. Surely with an open mind you can find that hidden quality under the pile of all that manure he sometimes spreads around.

Men are More Like Boys, Then Boys Are

Men I think are more inclined to be boys then ladies are to be girls. Now this is not a slam on anyone in regard to this statement. It just is what it is and that’s all there is to it. Guys don’t seem to want to grow up and girls on the other hand have to. Though men are good providers they tend to relinquish most of the responsibilities of the family stuff to the spouse and then are baffled why their love mate gets frustrated with them. Men seem to gather more toys then women do and don’t have a clue that their spouse has desires to acquire toys to. Which begs a question to be asked. What toys do women want? And why shouldn’t they have toys too. From a mans point of view this toy sharing concept would be viewed as an attempt to limit his toy chest and that would produce a climate of equality. Which begs another question do women have equal rights as men? Now I’m going to crawl out on a limb and make an observation here. The highest informed person I know has informed me that women do not have the same rights as men and why is that? Could it be that men still view woman as second to them? Now I don’t know about you? But from my experience and observational skills I have slightly tilled in the direction that women are not only equal to men, but in many ways have surpassed men in their skills of understanding life better. Now that I have dug my hole of words I think Ill crawl in and cover myself with dirt. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill
The Marriage Guru

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