Find the Life Style that Works for You

One Attraction Shouldn't Make a Relationship

People meet and like something about each other and then they develop a relationship. But what they don't know is what kind of connection do they have and how well is it going to stand up to the test of time. If there pretty much alone they may find that a good thing and it works well for them because they don't know any difference. And if they never move or change some of their routine they will not interact with different people and discover that there are indeed different ways to live together. If you only learn one way, then you will not miss something that you see other people doing like for example, ridding a bike, rowing a boat or just watching tv. Today of course we think of ourselves as being worldly and we think we know pretty much what is going on in the world. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

You Should Observe many Life Styles Before finding one that Works for You

You can live right next to someone and not know anything about them or what their life style is. So the trick to having the lifestyle that works for you requires that you experience all the kinds of ways that people can live their life. Then if your open minded and honest with yourself and have the self will to live the way you want to; then and only then will you truly find your place in the scheme of things. Limiting yourself the choices that are available to you will lessen your ability to find yourself and fill the space you want to fill.

Your Life Style is you, So Be Yourself

You should never let someone else chose the lifestyle you want for yourself. If what you want doesn't jell with your partner move on and find a companion that works for you. If you don't you'll never find yourself and that will be the greatest loss in your life.

Love and Life Style Should go Hand in Hand

I in my younger years used to think that love was the only life style and without it you had know life at all. Today even thought love is still my primary thinking, but I now value all living styles as long as love is one of the forces that hold them together. There are thousands of ways and reasons to share your life with someone else. I think that God judges us by the value of our love and not by how we live are life. That’s how I feel and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill
The Marriage Guru

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