Happiness Should Be Your Number 1 Goal

Everyone Deserves Happiness

You know that many people have rotten childhoods and then that defines them for the rest of their life. We develop these unhappy feelings and keep feeding them everyday like having a fire and just continue to add fuel to it. Unhappiness just totally consumes our life and we become what we feel and we think its our fault and only have small moments in time when happiness finds us napping and for that short period of time we smell the aroma of wellness. But its like a stranger in the night and while your sleeping and having bad dreams, it walks away and leaves you to your lonely life.

Don't Feed Off Each Other

And even when you find someone to share your thoughts with they too have their own unhappiness and then you feed off each other and the madness even gets worse. Yet both of you see others being happy and you wish for what they have, but wishing alone wont make it happen.

Decide for Happiness and that will Lead to Love

If this is you, whether your single or married happiness and love are yours for the asking. What you must do is to decide that happiness and love is your number one priority. So here's the first thing you want to do. Get a single note book like the kids use in school and write this on the first page in big letter (Love and Happiness is my number one priority) Now on a regular basis look at the paper and repeat the words and thru the day say the words in your head to yourself. So your mind will get the message on what you want to happen in your life and it will start helping you achieve your goal.

Stay Alive

Sometimes we get so into ourselves that we miss the whole point of being alive. Being alive should be a wonderful adventure and shouldn't be taken so seriously; Like its a matter of life or death. Life should be lived and we should always be doing new things and meeting new people. Get your childhood back and start having fun with everything you do and stop worrying about everything. And above all things become a people person. Talk to everyone, youl be amazed the opportunities that will come to you when you become a people person. Become a helping person and smile at everyone. Love and happiness from you will be like a breath of fresh air to everyone you meet.

Live Love and not Doom

The Ruler of the Universe grants everyone the joy of love and happiness. And no one can take it from you. If you have people in your life and they spread the word that doom and gloom is just around the corner. Walk away and find another corner to stand by because their one hundred percent wrong and you don't need the bad vibes their sending out.

Love and happiness is like the air its free and everyone deserves the joy it brings. That's how I feel and I’m sticking to it.

Don L. Terrill
The Love Guru

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